D. A. M. N. I. T. Code.

So, on the Tyra show they had this thing called the bro code, where men defend each other and help each other out, like.....pretty much a whole bunch of rules to follow with your homies/ crew, whichever floats your boat. I found it very interesting.......whatever,

So I made one for the ladies. And I made it all by myself, so don't think after you read this, your gonna find anything on it anywhere else.

Exclusive like that.

OK....ready? It's: D. A. M. N. I. T.

D - Daring
A - Amusing
M - Memorable
N - Neat
I - Intellectual & Independent
T - Time

I thought about it....and I figured maybe if some of us knew how to tamper with some of this stuff the right way, we could never lose. At least ....that's my vote. Now, the explanations:) Be flexible!

D - Daring: Ladies, some of us have to learn to live a little bit. Stop trying to be all perfect all the time cause a girl that thinks that she knows everything is boring, and really just pushes a dude to find someone that he can teach new things to. Be open minded and do things that you've never done to teach yourself that no matter what: you can do it. That way, whenever he wants to try something new, he won't be too reluctant on asking someone else to accompany him..... he might just ask you.

A - Amusing: Learn to laugh. It starts with laughing at yourself. For instance: girls that put on make-up before going to the gym, just cause there's guys there, but you know damn well that by the afternoon it's all gonna be sweat out anyway. Or the girls that go on dates with guys, and they know they wanna chow down, but because they wanna look all skinny and ish, they take small bites and after dinner they're still not full. Stop tryna be cute when it's un-called for. Your not always gonna look your best, but sometimes when you don't try that hard to look good, you do anyway......so please......take a chill pill and.....laugh! Shit, who cares.

M - Memorable: Always gotta make an impression. And not just any impression.....but a good one. If you think you rock, then you'll rock it, but if you think your lame, then you'll be lame. You don't necessarily have to put it all out there either. Be talkative. Don't let your partner over power you when it comes to being unique and out going. You gotta be able to keep up. And if you can't, then you should find someone on your level, cause I mean.....do you really want a man to make you look good...? Or do you wanna look good cause you know you look good...? Makes sense.

N - Neat: If disorganization is your organization, then your never gonna get by. If your not clean within yourself, then how do you ever expect to monitor a guy? I mean.....some people say that the way your room or living space is organized, tells a lot about how you live your life, and the emotions that run through it.....so maybe if you were cleaner, or arranged your things up in a different order every now and then, it would change you for the better.

I - Intellectual & Independent: Well.....you gotta be smart....and with being smart comes being independent. No guy likes a clingy chick. Period. So you gotta be able to hold your own, cause believe it or not....nobody else is really trying to pay your bills! And in order to do all that, you gotta be smart about it, cause just like a guy can't stand a stalker chick that won't leave him alone.....they can't stand dumb chicks either. Maybe to fuck with for like a minute......but, if you act dumb, you get treated dumb.

T - Time: Everything has to be done and said at the right time. Not any sooner, and not any later. Don't get all into a guy before you really get to know him, and say a whole bunch of stuff too early, that he could possibly use against you. And if you feel like your ready to move on and do more stuff, then do it and don't wait that long, cause that can come off to him like your not really feelin' him (It's happened to me.....and I pushed away many guys acting like that.). The truth is: Nobody in this world is too good for anybody. Even famous people do weird things that are natural......their not perfect, just like everyone else. Know when to do something, and when not to do something.....and it'll be all good.

So......guess that'll be it for the code.....

Damn, I talk too much.