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+Him Or The KIDS?

So I was watching the Jeremy Kyle show this morning and I actually haven't been watching this show for the longest time, but he does manage to come up with some pretty interesting stories.

On the show there was a women who chose her boyfriend over her children, to the point where he would tell her to kick them out and she would obey him and do just that.

Now the question is: Why do some women tend to choose the men in thier lives over their own kids?

In some cases. women who grow up without father figures are more proned to obey their boyfriends and their husbands. They are afraid of losing the only male figure that they have in their lives and sometimes will even go as far as turning their backs on their own kids just to keep that person around.

Although it is understandable, in the sense that women that do this have been through some type of phycological abuse, it is certainly not ok.

On the show, the girl that was speaking about her mother was willing to give her another chance to be a better person.

Would you have given your mother a second chance to accept you, even though you did nothing to deserve the rejection in the first place?

In most cases, people choose not to associate themselves with that, even though that is their parent.

I think this was probably one of the first real episodes I've seen (as far as this show goes) where the child wanted her mother to be part of her life more then the mother wanted to be a part of her childs life. And that's honestly a little sad.

No parent should choose a relationship over their kids. Especially if that relationship is mentally or physically abusive. Not only to the mother, but to the kids as well.

If you are in an abusive relationship and you're unsure how to get out of it and you find yourself making drastic decisions about your kids, as the mother in this episode did, you might want to consider talking to a counselor about issues in your past. Solving issues in ones past, gives the answers to a better future.

And a better relationship with your children.

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:THIS JUST IN

My mother called me today from work and told me to turn on the television and when I did, I saw that there was shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School, in Conneticut. At first, the news revealed that 18 children were killed. Later on though, the number changed to 20 and make that 26, counting the other adults that were killed as well.

The name of the shooter is Ryan Lanza.... And they have yet to identify his body, but they know that he killed himself after killing all those innocent people.

The president made an announcement about the incident. Even Obama was choked up to say that a majority of the people killed in the event were little kids.

Wow....

Getting killed. Just by going to school.

It's completely shocking and horrific to hear something like that.... I'm sure it cut a lot of people off guard and it was totally unexpected.

May all of those precious kids and their families find peace and may God stay in all of their hearts. My heart goes out to all of them.

If you are not aware of this news or anything that has happened up to this point; I URGE you to inform yourself.

Turn to your local news channel or look online for more information on the shooting and open your mind to the devastating things that are occuring in the world that we live in.

Be safe. Be smart.