Remember? : Cymphonique - Lil Miss Swagger

This was my song though.

+Him Or The KIDS?

So I was watching the Jeremy Kyle show this morning and I actually haven't been watching this show for the longest time, but he does manage to come up with some pretty interesting stories.

On the show there was a women who chose her boyfriend over her children, to the point where he would tell her to kick them out and she would obey him and do just that.

Now the question is: Why do some women tend to choose the men in thier lives over their own kids?

In some cases. women who grow up without father figures are more proned to obey their boyfriends and their husbands. They are afraid of losing the only male figure that they have in their lives and sometimes will even go as far as turning their backs on their own kids just to keep that person around.

Although it is understandable, in the sense that women that do this have been through some type of phycological abuse, it is certainly not ok.

On the show, the girl that was speaking about her mother was willing to give her another chance to be a better person.

Would you have given your mother a second chance to accept you, even though you did nothing to deserve the rejection in the first place?

In most cases, people choose not to associate themselves with that, even though that is their parent.

I think this was probably one of the first real episodes I've seen (as far as this show goes) where the child wanted her mother to be part of her life more then the mother wanted to be a part of her childs life. And that's honestly a little sad.

No parent should choose a relationship over their kids. Especially if that relationship is mentally or physically abusive. Not only to the mother, but to the kids as well.

If you are in an abusive relationship and you're unsure how to get out of it and you find yourself making drastic decisions about your kids, as the mother in this episode did, you might want to consider talking to a counselor about issues in your past. Solving issues in ones past, gives the answers to a better future.

And a better relationship with your children.

Which One Stands Out To You?

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:THIS JUST IN

My mother called me today from work and told me to turn on the television and when I did, I saw that there was shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School, in Conneticut. At first, the news revealed that 18 children were killed. Later on though, the number changed to 20 and make that 26, counting the other adults that were killed as well.

The name of the shooter is Ryan Lanza.... And they have yet to identify his body, but they know that he killed himself after killing all those innocent people.

The president made an announcement about the incident. Even Obama was choked up to say that a majority of the people killed in the event were little kids.

Wow....

Getting killed. Just by going to school.

It's completely shocking and horrific to hear something like that.... I'm sure it cut a lot of people off guard and it was totally unexpected.

May all of those precious kids and their families find peace and may God stay in all of their hearts. My heart goes out to all of them.

If you are not aware of this news or anything that has happened up to this point; I URGE you to inform yourself.

Turn to your local news channel or look online for more information on the shooting and open your mind to the devastating things that are occuring in the world that we live in.

Be safe. Be smart.

Jhene Aiko - Stranger

+Momma's Secret To Super Soft Skin?

Alright! Everywhere I go I got people touching my skin, especially my hands. And the big thing people say usually is "Damn, you got some really soft hands!" And then it progresses to the rest of my body and they realize "Damn, you got some really soft skin period!!!" So for a very long time people have always wondered and have asked me what I do to get my skin to be so soft. For foever, my mother has always mixed Cocoa butter with Shea and Mango butter. A dynamic duo.

Cocoa butter aids in helping the skin fight stretch marks and also is a great lotion for anti-aging. Shea/Mango butter is pratically the same thing but just a tad bit more concentratrated and a little softer then the Cocoa butter.

Mixing these two creames together: Instant soft skin. I apply them EVERY SINGLE NIGHT after I take a shower. It is not just some type of formula that you wear one night and it works for the rest of your life. And reguardless of what brand of lotion that you use, in order for anyone to get soft skin, ideally you should be applying your lotion every day because skin wears and tears everyday.

You may be able to find and purchase them from your local beauty supply store. If not then the best place to go is online. And be sure to always read the brand and do your own personal research about what you're purchasing, as there are always so many different types.

+Hmmm: Ideas, Ideas

Thinking about more eye candy segments?

-Eye Want Candy.

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I think that it's very safe to say....

If you don't like Draya Michele: I don't like you.

Mmm.

Lloyd ft. August Alsina - Swimming Pool Remix/ Remix

Listen.

Changes Me...

Starting to see that there's much more people veiwing the blog page which is always a great sight to see.

Makes me excited to come back.

School takes up so much of my time.... But it's the only way anything will get done.

I've never been good at saying that I didn't need to put that much effort into my academics like some people can.... In fact, I don't really honestly think that even those people that say that are good at it, are really good at it either. But it's whatever.

As the days go by I'm starting to realize that I'm really not as young as I once was....

Sounds like something really old to say..... Like something an old person who was sitting in a rocking chair outside of their front porch would say or some shit like that....

But it's the truth.

My freshman year of college seemed like it took a while.... And now I'm a sophomore.... and it already seems like in a few months, I'll be a junior.

A junior.

Already?

Hmmm....

Makes me think more about the moves that I make everyday.... What things are worth my time, and what things should I just look at and walk away from. Because there's a lot of things, especially at college, that can take up your time if you let it.

And when I was a freshman I probably let more things take up a lot of my time that didn't really have too much to do with academics....

But now I'm a sophomore.... I never have any time.

And when I see some of these upper-classman girls acting stupid..... Devoting all of their precious time to people that don't matter, that have nothing to offer, or that just wanna fuck them.... It makes me feel a certain type of way....

After a certain time, certain things should just stop.

If you're outside socializing for a majority of your day, you should be in the library studying twice as long.

At least that's what I've started doing with my sophomore year. Only because I realized that there will always be people to socialize with.... They ain't goin' no where.

Mean while.... I'm trying to get somewhere.

Plans?

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+Summer Time Chills

At least there's some examples of people who look right in Uggs in the the sun.

Clearly

I've been browsing a tad bit deep?

Another Lonely Night...

Well, telling by the tittle, there can only be one thing that this entry is about.

A lonely night. Once again.

Time for the random sentimental thoughts to take place now.

So what is Sam Spits The Truth thinking about at this second...?

Well, sex of course. As if that ever escapes my mind... Then there's my room, that's a mess. I keep telling my mom that I'll get around to it.... I keep lying to myself. It's just that when things get so messy and out of control you get a little scared of tackling it I guess.... That's how I always feel when my room gets to be a little out of control.... I just let it increase to the point of no return. Then there's also school and social life that I think about a little more often now these days too.

I usually have a couple people that I can talk to when it gets to be this late....

But I guess tonight I have some space to collect some of my thoughts.

It has come to my attention today, that someone I met my freshmen year of college will not be, or might not be, attending my school again next semester.

I was looking through his twitter.... Just browsing when I came across a conversation that he had with a friend and apparently, he isn't coming back.

Damn....

I took the whole summer to get over everything that had happened..... to the point where I really can say without a doubt that I'm completely good. I'm over it, happy, laughing at the situation and everything....

When you're that accomplished, even when you don't care about the other party anymore... You still want them to see you happy and better. Cause it just feels so damn good to know that they know that they can't have you.....

But.... he's gone I guess.

It's like when you're really mean to someone and you really like torturing them for fun.... but despite it, you would never want them to actually die or anything. Because you still want them to be around.... You'd rather have them there to laugh at then to see them go six feet under....

That's kinda how I feel.

I'd rather have him here to ignore and make fun of....then for him to be gone and just completely out of my life.....forever....

But.... It is what it is.

Whether he comes back or he doesn't.... I'mma do me cause that's all I can be.

Him leaving might just be what's best for me anyways.

Although I really did want to face the new semester head on, with him there.

Oh well.

Saya-nara bitch.

On another note:

I'm very lonely tonight...... Too lonely to be satisfied.

Maybe I should force myself to sleep....? Which I hate doing with a passion, but it's the only thing that will kill this need inside me right now for some sort of friendly attention....

Rest...

-10 Random Sam Spits The Truth Facts Moment!-

1. I take serious pride in my complexion. I could care less if I was any lighter or darker.

2. I like weed now. Woop-di-doo right.

3. I always wonder if I can stay the size that I am now for the rest of my life.... I really want to.

4. I want to get more nail polish. I don't have enough variety.

5. I don't really like when my mom tells me what I should do with my money. I don't tell her what to do.

6. Dreamcatchers are the shit.

7. Sometimes I wonder what my life would be like if I was Hispanic.

8. I think that Guy Code should have been on television a long ass time ago. Shit is funny.

9. I think things are always better done then said.

10. If you don't fuck with any aspect of Odd Future or any artist involved in Odd Future what so ever: Fuck, You.

In: E. X. T. R. A.

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