+Discussion Topic: What Is "The One" Anyway?

So I was in my living room earlier, and I was just breezing through this old magazine that we had laying out on the table, and as I was turning the pages, I came across this full spread layout of the top 10 sexiest guys of 2010. It just got me thinking like dang.....Who really looks like this? I mean these men look great. But a majority of what you're looking at is oil, make-up and jewelry exclusively for that shot. The world is a much more different place.

So folks....Here goes another one of them lesson thangs'. Presented by none other than Sam Spits The Truth.

Looks?→ So looks. I mean, looks prove to be a big deal for a lot of women these days. Actually....it's been like that for a while. When I was younger, I remember that when it came to a boy, looks were really important for sure. But as I grew up, I realized that being on the hunt for a guy that looks good.....never works. I also came to learn that some of the best looking guys I met: Are some of the dumbest, most hurtful people that I have ever encountered in my life. So when you're looking around, you might wanna just let that go. I feel like when I just calm it down and just do me, I attract people that I thought would never say anything to me, or even pay attention to me. So....it works.





Dress?→ Threads prove a huge point. Like for me, it's all about the shoes. I don't focus on them with like, extreme seriousness, but hey, I mean a guy with some fresh kicks has a head start. And besides the shoes, a clean dress style is also what I look for. You don't want a guy that doesn't try to dress well or the least bit exceptional at all.....And you also don't want a guy that tries to out dress you either. Simple....and clean. Fresh....but not too fresh. Kicks: Nike dunks are always cool, Jordans, Anything from Vans is fly, Some Addidas, and maybe Reeboks. Those are just some though. But, you get the point.





Attitude/Personality?→ Well....I guess I've been through enough guys in my life, where attitude is a big deal. I remember I once was walking around in Wheaton Mall with my cousin, and a guy tried talking to me, and his big idea was for him to come over and grab on my hand....A nigga that I never met....and not only was it weird and uncomfortable....But if he even had a chance, just by him doing that, he automatically forfeited it. It showed me that his attitude was really cocky. Like he felt like he could just walk up to me, regardless, and that his looks would make it ok for him to touch me without even knowing me. Women....That is a BAD first impression. It's a little too close, too soon. And take it the way you want to: But it was a jerk move. It was a little over the top for me though. And if there's any men reading this: Please don't go to your local malls, trying to get with women, grabbing on their hands, like grabbing a dog by the leash. Girl's can read that shit. And if you're a guy that just isn't getting any play, it's not cause you're busy, and you're surrounded by enough girls on a daily basis where you think you should be getting some play....Maybe it's just your attitude for real.






I mean, I was thinking about getting into extra shit. But these are just things to consider when seeing a guy for the first time. What the first impression should be like. Everyone's different. But maybe everyone can somewhat, if not completely, relate to some of the things in this post.

Yes, yes, yes. And thank you.